My name is Shermeka. I''m 23 years old and I have no children. I''m currently in a relationship with my 31 year old boyfriend. We''ve been together for 3 months now and that''s also how long we''ve known each other. Yes I know that''s fast but my feelings for him came along fast and I just couldn''t hide them. Now I''m starting to doubt this relationship because I found out that he is still married and trying to get a divorce last month. I was kind of upset but I know that they are not living together. She lives in Texas with his 2 children. I do see progress from him trying to get a divorce but it''s just not moving fast enough for me. What made me so upset when I confronted him that he didn''t tell me this when we met and probably wouldn''t have told me. His excuse was that he was afraid of losing me. With all this in mind I''ve decided to stay and help him with his divorce. Lately he''s been acting kind of shady with showing his affection. Every time I lean in for a kiss he either turns away or gives me a peck on the lips. His excuse for that is he wants to make sure his breath is fresh. He does this a lot. He says that he loves me but to me he doesn''t show it all the time. Sometimes I think it''s my own insecurities and other times I think it''s him because he told me about his previous relationships and why he cheated. He says it was because he wouldn''t show them affection and didn''t get any in return. I just need to know is it me? or is he a good liar?