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I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 years now, and knew her a year before that. About a year ago she told me that she felt as though she might be transgender. I tried to be supportive told her I was willing to call her a different name and pronouns, whatever she needed. Well, about 5 months ago she declared she is a he. I again tried to be supportive but suddenly couldn''t bring myself not to refer to as "Jennifer" and she/her etc. Now I don''t know what to do.... I don''t want to give up but I''m a hetrosexual male and can''t see myself with another male. But I''m also really in love with this person, their personality, we click. I suggested an open relationship, but was told no. Any advice?
"When it comes to "what if" maybe you need to stop looking in your rear-view mirror, because you're going to miss the turning on the road ahead..."
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