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I am under a lot of pressure and a great deal of stress to decide what universities i want to apply to, and what courses i want to take in order to write a personal statement. I have no idea of what i want to do in terms of a degree or career, but i have been set work by my college regarding that this must be completed before September, and im running out of time. My nervous twitches and hair pulling worsen when i'm under a lot of stress. I am not getting any or much help or support from friends and family and i really need help becuase i havent got a clue what to do and no-one to point me in the right direction of what i should do next. Please does anyone have any advice.
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Other users say...
I am very lucky to have found your website. Recently I wrote about a problem which I face very often.... There were 10 responses from 10 mentors. They have really explained to me and made me understand that I do not have any problem. Your services are wonderful and I am very much thankful to all of you.
I have been mentoring on HM for 18 months. I really enjoy it & hopefully I am helping other people. Recently I posted my my first 'request for a mentor'. I have been completely bowled over by the response. So many people taking their time & making the effort to offer constructive advice in a friendly polite manner. For me it completely validates the intent behind HM. It reminds me how many good, helpful people there are out there. Thanks for providing such a great service.
well what a geat website! in all honestly, i basically typed in "agony aunts online" while on a down day just expecting some upbeat optimism on the computer, and came across this site. it is so much better than just reading a passage on a website, to actually talk to REAL people for honest advice and listening about particular subjects rather than a general overview.
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I just want to say thanks to everyone who replied to one of my recent shout outs about forgiving - every message was useful and some very helpful indeed! It really feels good to know other people understand how i've been feeling, and to know there are people not far from me to help! Thanks so much, and everyone please don't hesitate to get in touch if I can help anyone with any problem you may be having xxx
Georgieee
